Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Reflecting on grief

While our child knows how to play and create, our earliest self knows grief and sorrow too, and knows how to express it. Using the non-dominant hand bypasses a lot of our social rules processing, and lets us tap directly into that child-like core of ourself. Sometimes, it doesn't feel okay to express our grief, or we don't have a safe way to get started.
Using the technique of drawing and writing with your non-dominant hand, to get to a place of your feelings, let the dominant hand ask the question "Why are you sad, what is your loss?"

With your non-dominant hand and crayons, write or draw your answer.

Then, the dominant hand can ask the question, "what would comfort you or make you feel better?"

With your non-dominant hand and crayons, write or draw your answer.

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